Why Do You Feel Weak Toward Sex? And What Is The Difference Between Porn And Sex?

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Have you ever seen a car driver blame his fast car because it tempts him to drive fast and furious? No.

Yes, the car is designed to handle fast and powerful driving, but that’s an option that doesn’t force itself on you. You are the leader and driver; you can control your car and use its features according to each situation!

God designed you to be functioning sexually in the right context (marriage and a love commitment that protects you and your partner openly). Many blame their hormones, arousal, erections, drives, libido—and the whole culture, both for men and women, is dipped in lies and conditioning—by saying: because we are wired for sex, we can’t help but fornicating, and the more, the better, because it is a sign of health. Many experts even encourage people to “keep their engine running.” All sorts of lies and misunderstandings of our beautiful design in the Lord.

What I am about to share here, after a long journey of being in lies and in truth, will help demystify this for you and bring you to wholeness and freedom that will establish you in a life of victory—because it is crazy to have your car running you, and not you running your car!

What I am about to share here may be new, shocking, and maybe you’ve never considered it before: your sexual drive is neutral. It is not oppressing you, nor pushing you to an uncontrolled life in random and wild sex encounters.

I know at this point some men would tell me, “Tony, you are wrong. It seems you never had a strong libido and a healthy erection, and thus you don’t know what you are saying here, and your perspective is irrelevant.” Let me tell you that you are wrong, because I am healthy, my car is not broken, and I understand your concerns.

But again, your sexual design is divine, and it should be a blessing to you, life-giving and not oppressive, and certainly not leading you to a low life of shame and risks. So your sexual desires are neutral. So what is fueling you to go full speed and crash?

It is your unrighteous mindset, the culture of lies within you given to you in this world from your childhood, AND the constant demonic activity to use what is godly for the profane. This is your problem!

Don’t blame your erection and stirring, whether you are a man or a woman. This should lead you to praise and worship because you are aligned with God’s design. You are healthy and blessed, and this is life-giving to you. What? Thanking God for my erection and strong sexual drives? YES.

I thought I should oppose this and maybe even consider cutting some organs, as Jesus told us to “sever” a few of those if they lead us to temptation and offense. You got it wrong, buddy! Some saints of old went extreme and did sever their organs because they couldn’t control the car. How did that work for them? Not good—because you can’t sever sin by severing your organs. Plus, God created those beautiful organs of yours.

Let’s take another example: the Eunuchs, who were castrated specifically to prevent them from having sex with or raping women they served—especially in royal harems. This made them trusted by kings to work closely with women without risk. So did that remove their desire to lust after women, even though they lost their genitals? No. And maybe this violent act of severing their penises escalated them in porn.

Jesus said if you lust after a woman in your mind, you commit adultery with her.

Your organs and hormones are not—and will never be—your problem. They are neutral.

It is not your erection and libido that are making you a wild ox; it is the sin nature in you, the culture of lies that fuels you to a life of sin and destruction, and the constant demonic oppression whispering unrighteousness and uncleanness all the time. Renew your mind and rebuke the devil.

You are beautiful the way God made you. Holiness is beautiful!

God’s context of your design will keep you in perfect peace and will even create more appreciation in you for God and how He made you.

You are the driver of this powerful, neutral engine. You can use it to run a race and win a contest, or hit someone with it, or show off, or compete, etc.

You are conditioned with lying movies and demonic and sinful educational systems that tell you, “If you are a man, you should be active every day and live unclean,” and they give you scientific reasons for it. That’s a recipe for disaster. We tried their counsel, and we lived in bondage—and were never happy, clean, or satisfied.

You can unlearn, with the Holy Spirit, every demonic prophetic word that claimed your organs for sin assignments.

You don’t need a woman sexually to be a whole man, and you don’t need a man sexually to be a whole woman. We don’t complete each other but serve with each other greater purposes.

Lord, thank you for my body.

God bless you,
Tony Francis

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