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Prophetic Word for the month of Tevet 5783 / January 2023

As I was praying and seeking the Lord like Habakkuk standing on his tower to see what the holy Lord wants to say to us for the month of Tevet / January 2023 that just started on December 25th, 2022, I heard him saying:

You have waited long and here IT IS, the month you've been waiting for! Believe me, as I say to you these words through my servant, it is INDEED the month you've been waiting for. Why? Because I am a just God, I hear your cry and your persisting faith knocking on my court's door.

This month will be so weighty in glory for you, my sons and daughters, because I am unleashing and loosing great promotions to you in your life areas but first and foremost, in your heart's attitude!

In this month, many of your legal issues and lawsuits will be solved and I hear the Lord saying CASE CLOSED. You've been dragging and dragging with so many issues and I saw strong the release of your faith for the impossible and I was delighting in those aromas behind the scene. In this month, many prodigals I AM SENDING HOME, treat them well when they arrive, and restore them back to me. In this month, many of you who are teachers will be promoted not only with a higher income but also with BONUSES, and I see the Lord winking his eye. In this month, many of you will start your awaited ministries because you sense and feel the green light of the Lord giving you peace to launch and greatly launch in Jesus' name. In this month, many of you shall walk in my miracles and some of you will be the miracle and an open book for others to know there is a living God. You shouldn't have been living AND HERE YOU ARE!

In this month, many of you will gain strength and will RUN their race, it is time to compete with the horses and it will be a time of acceleration AND restoration with this supernatural running. I can't wait to see you shooting off! In this month, many of you will receive downloads about romance, marriage, relationships, and dating. I am POKING you, says the Lord.

Enjoy my goodness!

Tony Francis

In this month, I am believing for those who want to sow to SEE the manifestations of the GOODNESS of the Lord. Feel free to give as the Holy Spirit leads you. Click here or go to the Make a Donation page. God bless you in Jesus' name. Amen!

3 Stages Of Marriage – Marriage Therapy Made Easy!

By Wayne Sutton

Marriage is a wonderful thing. Well, at least it should be wonderful. In our Phone Counseling and Life Coaching business we all too often see marriage issues leading to separation, divorce, and even at times violence. Our hope and prayer is that we can lead people to an awareness of where they are in the marriage, and begin a process of reconstruction or rebuilding the relationship. But, that is jumping ahead. So, let's look at the three levels of marriage closely.

The Romance Stage

First, this is often called the “Romance” stage – as two people have captured one another's heart and attention. This period can and usually includes the dating and engagement period. The romance stage is all too often a “time of blindness” where we unconsciously ignore the negative and focus solely on the attractiveness of one another. This stage, unless affected by other past relationships or other deep issues, is usually fun-loving and care free. It is also usually easy to discuss “toxic issues” such as sex, money, and family. This romance stage almost always transforms into the second stage of relationships, which I refer to as the “Reality” stage.

The Reality Stage

Reality, this is the tricky area. Reality is time when the honeymoon period is over, and the true self emerges. We all too often see the other person “as we choose to see them” during the romance stage, and then the way they truly are during the reality stage. Worse, many times we perceive the person through our own perceptions, based upon the filters of past relationships and personal history. This is where we must take a self-analysis of our walk and expectations from both ourselves and those we bring into our life.

The Rebuilding Stage

Polarity between the couple can show the major differences, and if not careful can lead to resentment. Resentment is like a cancer of the soul, and this can bring jabbing words of pain or distancing from the couples. This is sadly the reality stage that almost everyone walks in, yet few are willing to leave. This stage can bring the emotional ups and downs for years or even decades. This up and down lifestyle is either tolerated and the person lives in a life of stress, or they end up in divorce.

There is hope however for nearly every marriage. The key to healing a marriage is learning to walk in the stage of “Rebuilding”. Rebuilding may be quick and easy, or it can be a lifelong experience. However, even the process can be rewarding as you go through the journey. Let the journey be an experience, and let love grow through the process.

How do you rebuild? Sometimes it is simple as self-evaluation and applying grace through the rocky times, and at other times it may include using a marriage counselor or therapist. Most situations can be healed through proper time and loving support. Where are you on the three stages of life? Are you ready to rebuild and get back to the romance stage?

Wayne Sutton
www.TheSecondAdam.com